Bad Girl Gal x Posmo Research Facility 

*all names are anonymous/altered* 

I’m entering Carrie Bradshaw but off the binary era, and I thought it would be a great idea to get all my former flames and male friends (cishet & LGBTQIA+) into a figurative room and ask them about blow jobs.

Category is: rogue / kind of horny / hella daunting. 

I was intrigued to know what ‘dream blow job’ situations these folks could conjure:

X: On top of a mountain, with a joint at 6 am. 

X2: Two girls at once. 

X3: Probably a morning blow job, ball play, also…I want ass in my face. 

The general consensus of the dream blow job seemed achievable, and as for one of my friends: I hope he finds his mountain. 

Maybe unsurprisingly, among my interviewees, there was an overbearing no go zone of teeth and dry mouths when it came to receiving head. However, I’d be curious to know if they have ever engaged in pleasure/pain play and whether this may change their perception of teeth. 

As a vulva owner - and on some occasions, a blow job giver - I wanted to know what it really felt like to receive a blow job. I stated I wanted them to dig deep. 

X3: The feeling; it’s pure ecstasy - warm, wet. 

X4: Probably a state of euphoria, sometimes you close your eyes and go to a completely different place and then snap back to reality. 

X2: Feels like the life is getting sucked out of you, ya know? It’s warm.

Working for Posmo (as the Digital Marketing bb) has allowed me to enter into some previously untouched realms, especially during what I call - ‘the dinner table chat’ - with my friends, room-mates, ex’s, and situationships.

Posmo Community Generated Content is one of my favourite facets of Posmo. We reached out last week asking for all things blow jobs. One contributor asked their chosen subject:

POSMO CONTRIBUTOR: What do you love most about blow jobs? 

POSMO SUBJECT: It feels so fucking good. Just you sucking and touching my body and cock, occasionally looking up at me, knowing you're doing it to make me feel about as good as physically possible. 

Whilst I feel I’m personally a fan of the skin-on-skin blowjob, I am definitely intrigued to know what toys could be incorporated into play. Whilst I’ve used toys in blow job play before, this time I had Posmo co-founder and creative director, Sexologist Laura Miano, consult first. 

LAURAS NOTES ~

For ball/perineum play, Posmo recommends the Zumio E Pinpoint Rotator for small, targeted vibrations for anyone who loves to incorporate sensation into other areas during blow jobs. For larger vibrations, try the Fun Factory Volta Blue. 

For extra vibrations, the Prism Bullet Vibrator allows for transferring vibes through your mouth and onto their dick. You can also try just licking their dick with the vibe to your cheek, which creates a wet vibrating lick ;)

Take little breaks from sucking dick and alternate by placing the Satisfyer Pro over their frenulum (i.e. banjo string). This area is the most sensitive on the penis as it's the penis equivalent to the clitoris! These toys are usually used on the clitoris, so it's no surprise that it feels just as good on the frenulum. 

Happy Blowing.