How Does winter change your sex life?

To be honest, I feel as though my sex life remains pretty consistent year round. However in winter I find myself moving slower, hugging longer and yearning for more of a love making type of intimacy instead of the hot, horny, playful mindset over the summer months.

Do you find that your libido shifts over the cold months, how so?

Over the winter season my libido can lean towards the dormant side. Craving platonic levels of physical touch. Back tickles, massages and head pats to name a few. 

How do you prioritise sexual intimacy over the cold months?

I prioritise sexual intimacy over the cold months by spending excessive time alone in my own thoughts, trying to look inwards & feel deeper without any external distraction or gratification.

When you want to connect with yourself on a deeper erotic level what do you do?

These days, connecting with my erotic side hasn’t so much relied on physical actions as it has in the past. The connection instead being a mental journey addressing internal acceptance, forgiveness and love. 

Through research & conversations with many different people from all walks of life, I have found myself being more in touch than ever with my sexuality and identity. Understanding and breaking down typical concepts and ideas of sexuality, relationships and how in this life the aspiration to have your cake and eat it to isn’t so negative, instead invigorating and exciting.

How do you incorporate Sex toys into your solo or partnered play?

Solo play for me will typically involve a classic vibe, ambient lighting, a positive  mental space and super soft sheets.